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Tag: romance

December 13, 2013
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The sum of zero is zero. People with whom you associate with, indicate just how successful you are in getting your goals accomplished.  If most of the people you associate with, have a knack for getting their individual goals met, it would reflect on  your ability to get your goals met and vice versa.

A teen client of mine, who once bragged about how many Facebook friends he had, couldn’t name one peer he was friends with who could tutor him in pre calculus.

“So much for community support,” is what I told him. I also notice that a number of my adult clients struggle with similar issues, they tend to associate themselves with others who are struggling with the same issues as themselves.

We all have personal power, unfortunately due to personal life experiences, some of us fail to recognize our personal power, and instead of resorting to personal empowering behaviors, such as educating ourselves to accomplish our goals, some of us resort to self destructive behaviors out of frustration. Self destructive behaviors which are amplified through our association with like minded individuals.

What type of people do you associate with? Are they often practicing their personal power to accomplish personal goals, or influence positive change in their world? Or are they using their personal power to be self destructive and destructive in their personal relationships with others?

If your answer is the latter, then you have to ask yourself, why you associate with such characters?

A hundred people in your life with no positive constructive qualities, equals zero positive influences in your life.

Ugo is a psychotherapist and life coach.

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November 30, 2013

Does this sound familiar? Three types of women to avoid dating, or three types of men to avoid dating. Human beings are social creatures and this makes romance serious business. So it is no wonder that there are so many media outlets that pander to the jilted, playing one gender against the next in return for profits.

In this video I discuss why bad relationships you have experienced in the past or are currently experiencing are your responsibility and what it takes to find that special someone. Furthermore, I would like to clarify that my reference to the word “responsibility” does not connote fault, instead it means personal power. I am a big believer in recognizing and accepting our personal powers as individuals, only when we come to recognize and accept our personal power that we can evoke change.

Enjoy the video.

 

Ugo is a psychotherapist and life coach.

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